Parent Resources

How to Prepare for a Parent-Teacher Conference

In order to make the most of your all-too-quick time with your child’s teacher, read through these questions and decide which ones resonate most with you. In an ideal world, we could ask all of these questions and more, but if you can’t choose, check out the “cheat sheet” questions. These three questions, while specific, lead to a broader picture of what your child looks like in the classroom in terms of academic and social-emotional well-being. And expert tip, and I’m saying this as a former classroom teacher, do not be afraid to follow-up! If there are questions on the list that you didn’t get to ask or you want to delve deeper on a particular topic, email your child’s teacher. And speaking as a parent now, do it shortly after the meeting before you put it off and forget!

Reading at Home: A Long-Term Investment in Your Child’s Future

Just like potty training, helping your child learn to love reading can be messy, exhausting, and time-consuming. But make no mistake — the payoff is huge.

With patience, consistency, and the right guidance, your child can grow into an independent, confident reader. And you don’t have to do it alone.

Check out Booktrition’s handpicked book selections, curated by reading experts, to support independent reading at home. Because every great reader starts with a great book — and a parent who shows them the way.

Second Grade
Third Grade
First Grade
Kindergarten

Question: Shouldn’t my child choose every book they read?

At Booktrition, we believe kids should read what they love—and what helps them grow. The right mix of enjoyment and challenge builds strong reading skills and a lifelong love of books.

But as many parents know, the books kids love aren’t always the ones that help them grow. That’s where you come in.

There are three key ways to support reading at home: you reading to them, them reading to you, and them reading independently. We call these the “Big 3” of raising readers.

The last two won’t apply much for kids in Pre-K and below—but as your child learns to read, they’ll become more important. On the flip side, parents often read aloud less as kids get older, shifting toward listening and independent reading in the later elementary years.

The “Big 3” of Raising Readers

Research shows that children’s reading needs evolve as they develop. In early childhood, shared reading with a caregiver supports language acquisition and fosters a love of stories. As children gain decoding skills, reading aloud to an adult and independent reading become increasingly important for building fluency and comprehension. Because of this, the reading routine naturally changes as your child grows older, adapting to their developing skills and interests.

🗣️Reading to Your Child

Choose literally anything.

Books that are too hard for them to read alone are perfect for reading together. This is your chance to stretch their vocabulary, build background knowledge, and just enjoy stories — no matter the topic, reading level, or length of book.

  • Dinosaurs? Tooth fairies? Talking animals? Yes.

  • Picture books? Chapter books? Absolutely.

  • Harry Potter or The Bad Seed for the eighth time? Go for it.

If they’re excited about it, read it. This is how you grow curiosity and connection.

👂 Have Your Child Read to You

Choose from our “just-right” books.

These are books they can mostly read on their own, but may still need occasional help. Think of this time as a mini five- or ten-minute tutoring session where you are listening, assessing, and helping as needed. “Just-right” books are often aligned with what they’re learning in school — especially when it comes to phonics and decoding.

We’ve analyzed the phonics content in these books to match classroom instruction. These are the “stretch zone” books — not too easy, not too hard, but just right for learning.

Read these together, talk through tricky words, and celebrate the effort.

Check out books by age here:

Kindergarten
First Grade
Third Grade
Second Grade

✌️ Independent Reading

Let them take the lead.

This is where reading confidence grows. Let your child choose books to read on their own — even if they’re a little too easy (yay, fluency!) or a little too hard (hello, curiosity!).

Keep offering those “just right” books, but don’t be afraid to mix in graphic novels, re-read favorites, or explore a whole pile of random interests. The goal is not perfection — it’s momentum and fostering a love of reading.